Posted by: christinelaennec | April 19, 2013

The ultimate shopping experience

Great news!  We have managed to find a house in Glasgow.  I’m so excited!  And I’m SO grateful.  I haven’t lived on the ground floor since I came to Scotland nearly 21 years ago now, and I haven’t had my very own garden in that time either.  Our house-to-be is a terraced house (so shares a wall with its neighbours either side), built about 1910.  In terms of square metres and rooms inside it’s a bit smaller than our double-upper flat, but it has a front and back garden and is in a very friendly neighbourhood.   It is described by the estate agent as a “villa” and my sister says it is what Americans would call a “townhouse”.   Sort of like this, only you have to imagine another house adjoining the one on the right, all the way down the street.

Glasgow terraced houses (from Zoopla.com)

Glasgow terraced houses (from Zoopla.com)

There are shops and parks nearby, and good bus and rail connections to the city centre.  Michael will be able to cycle to work.  Who knows, maybe I’ll get back on my bicycle some day as well?

If anyone’s interested about how one goes about buying a house in Scotland, the process is more or less like this:

1.  Sign up to about six different agencies who sell houses.  Some of them are sollicitors and some of them are estate agents.  (In Aberdeen, they’re all sollicitors.)

2.  Watch your emails and the internet like a hawk.

3.  The moment a new property comes up on the market, book a viewing.

4.  If, as happened to us, the house is bought from under your nose before you can even see it, next time have your sollicitor note an interest before you’ve even seen a property so that they can’t sell without telling you and giving you a shot at it.

5.  Read the surveyor’s home report and try to understand the difference between woodworm, dry rot, wet rot and damp.  Similarly, try to work out which repairs are deemed critical, and which are only recommended, and why.  After reading a dozen or so of these reports, conclude that the valuations of properties are hugely subjective and vary enormously.

6.  Go to view the property.  If only one of you can view the property, have a very clear idea of what your priorities are, which unchangeable things you require, and how much you are willing to compromise on the rest.  Arrange a number of skype and phone calls to discuss the relative merits and demerits of the property.  Try to reach a frame of mind where you realise that having a utility room, open fire, guest room that fits a double bed, and other such luxuries are actually not the very most important thing.  Discuss the indefinables such as how the house feels at some length.

7.  Do as much research as you can about the school catchment area.  It helps if you’re willing to leave schooling up to divine intervention.

6.  If after steps 3 to 7 you want to try to buy the property, look at your budget and pick a number over the “offers-over” price, which you think might beat the other bidders’ own bids.  The number should end with -999 or -499, or you might opt for some startling figure that ends in -714 for example.  Discuss this number with your sollicitor and agree that No One Has A Crystal Ball.

7.  Pay for your sollicitor to prepare your bid.  Wait anxiously for the day and time of the bidding.  It may happen (as it did to us) that once all the bids have been opened, the seller decides they don’t want to sell after all.

8.  Begin again at step 2.

Once you’ve managed to agree a sale, you can relax a little bit, but you must remember that nothing is set in stone until your Missives Have Been Concluded.  This is a mysterious process best left to sollicitors.  It may involve more investigation of wet rot, possibly at your expense, or paperwork relating to Certificates of Completion and the like.

You will also need to attend to the matter of transferring (“porting”) your existing mortgage to your new property, and this may require you to do handstands down at the bank.  However, I won’t go into that now.  Or ever, at least not on this blog.

It’s wonderful to have a place to move into – they have agreed to a moving-in date of 1st of August, just what we needed.  Now we have a real focus for the start of our new life.  We can start transferring the Dafter’s medical care and education team.  I am so thankful!  Thank you for your good thoughts and prayers, we really appreciate them.

Posted by: christinelaennec | April 15, 2013

Christmas all year long!

The Dafter loves Christmas and all things sparkly, so you can imagine how amazed and delighted she was to see the Nutcracker Christmas Shop in Callander.  We first spied it on an evening exploration.  Could it really be open in April, we wondered?

The Nutcracker Christmas Shop in Callander, April 2013.

The Nutcracker Christmas Shop in Callander, April 2013.

We returned the next day – twice in fact – and it was all a Christmas-lover could have hoped for, and more:

Nutcracker_2

We have a family tradition of picking out a new ornament for the tree every year.  Normally this happens in November or December, but we now have our ornament for 2013 – one that says “Callander” on it, to remind us of this fun trip.  Look at the expression on the Dafter’s face!

In the Nutracker Christmas shop, Callander.  April 2013.

In the Nutracker Christmas shop, Callander. April 2013.

The shop owner was very friendly, and allowed me to take photos of the shop.  I’d never seen anything like these amazing carved wooden arches before:

Beautiful wooden carvings in the Nutracker Christmas Shop, Callander.  April 2013.

Beautiful wooden carvings in the Nutracker Christmas Shop, Callander. April 2013.

She told us that not only does she have the shop in Callander – which was never short of customers during our two visits – but there are three others!  Two more in Scotland and one in Stratford-upon-Avon.

We had such a fun time.  It wasn’t too hard to feel Christmassy with the freezing cold weather and the occasional flake of snow, but we’ve been known to sing Christmas carols in July at our house, so perhaps we’re a bit extreme.  You can find out more on the Nutracker Christmas Shop website here

Perhaps a visit to the Christmas Village in Crieff should be planned?  For the summertime?  Hmm…

Posted by: christinelaennec | April 13, 2013

A visit to Callander

Well, what do you know?  In the midst of house-selling and -buying (no luck yet securing a house in Glasgow), we went on a wee holiday!  We spent two days in the village of Callander, which is in a lovely part of Scotland known as the Trossachs.  In fact it is inside the Loch Lomond and the Trossachs National Park.

The village of Callander, in the Trossachs.  April 2013.

The village of Callander, in the Trossachs. April 2013.

This map shows you where Callander is – to the north of Stirling, and just inside the eastern border of the park.

Map of The Loch Lomond and Trossachs National Park, Scotland.  From www.stirlingsurveys.co.uk

Map of The Loch Lomond and Trossachs National Park, Scotland. From http://www.stirlingsurveys.co.uk

One of the reasons we chose Callander was for its straight main street, which was perfect for “wheelchair walks” with the Dafter.  Another reason was Lorna’s post about the Mhor Bread tearoom, and the bookshop in Callander.  And it proved to be a great place to spend a few days.  The Dafter did walk quite a bit (for her), which was great.  The weather was freezing cold, but not actually snowing – sadly, we lost the earmuffs on our perambulations.  But she loved being in new surroundings, and that seemed to give her energy.  Her ME is very slowly improving – I will write an update at some point, and I thank all who have left encouraging comments once again!

We enjoyed a delicious lunch at Mhor Bread, and we also really enjoyed the bookshop.  It is small but delightful.  There is one room full of well-chosen second-hand books, and another room where they rebind some of them.

The Dafter in front of King's Bookshop, Callander.  April 2013.

The Dafter in front of Kings Bookshop, Callander. April 2013.  It was why we came here!

When we first went, it was closed, with this sign in the window:

Sign in the window of King's Bookshop, Callander.  April 2013.

Sign in the window of Kings Bookshop, Callander. April 2013.

We enjoyed browsing when we came back in the afternoon.  I love their colourful chandelier:

The Dafter inside King's Bookshop, Callander.  April 2013.

The Dafter inside King’s Bookshop, Callander. April 2013.

The owners were not always in evidence, but their cat was a beatific presence:

Cat owner of King's Bookshop, Callander.  April 2013.

Cat owner of Kings Bookshop, Callander. April 2013.

I mailed a few postcards home to my family in the States, and I was very impressed by the fact that their post office is also a garden centre.  Look at this!

The garden section of the post office in Callander.  April 2013.

The garden section of the post office in Callander. April 2013.

One morning I went by myself to see two woollen mills in a village just a mile down the road.  Michael and the Dafter collapsed with laughter when, having asked me where I was going, I replied, “To Kilmahog”.  The woollen mills were disappointing – both of them owned by Edinburgh Woollen Mills and both containing identical stock.  There was a dusty exhibition about weaving with a video loop that was rather sad.  But it was a lovely place and I had an excellent view of the hill that you see at the end of Callander’s main street, Ben Ledi:

Ben Ledi, from Kilmahog (a mile down the road from Callander).

Ben Ledi, from Kilmahog (a mile down the road from Callander).

It’s been such a cold spring that even a week into April, the countryside looked very wintry:

View from Kilmahog, April 2013.

View from Kilmahog, April 2013.

It was really great to have a change of scenery, especially for the mostly-housebound Dafter.  One of the highlights of our trip was a visit to a very unusual shop – but I will post about that separately!

I wish you all a very good weekend.

Posted by: christinelaennec | April 9, 2013

A Cleome for me

One of my Christmas gift knitting projects was a shawl designed by the talented Charlotte Walford (who blogs at lottieknits).  I enjoyed making it so much that I decided to make one for myself!  I made the smaller size this time.

"Cleome" shawl, designed by Charlotte W....????

“Cleome” shawl, designed by Charlotte Walford

Knitting it a second time was very satisfying.  It gave me a feeling akin to re-reading a book that I rushed through a bit too quickly the first time around.  The lace section looks complex but is actually much easier than the finished item suggests.

Cleome shawl, detail

Cleome shawl, detail

The wool, Manos de Uruguay silk blend fino, is very beautiful in its colour variations, and also lovely to handle.  I like that it’s made by women who might otherwise not be able to support their families, and who are able to take pride in their work.

The smaller size is perfect for wrapping around your neck, and the crescent design ensures that it stays on your shoulders like a lovely lacy collar.

I am still persevering with my New Leaf Cardigan, in case anyone is wondering.  After several attempts, I finally feel I’ve mastered a good knitting technique for the colourwork.  ajb had asked about holding the wool in both hands, and I might attempt a bit of a photo tutorial if I can manage it.

April has continued to be very cold here in Scotland – still some snow falling – but we hold firm to the idea that spring WILL come when it’s ready!  For the moment, though, there are plenty of opportunities to wear my new shawl. I hope you’re all having a very good week.

Posted by: christinelaennec | April 7, 2013

New Every Morning

I’ve been using a new kind of journal recently.  I should explain that I’m one of these compulsive diary-keepers who likes to write down what happened (or what I thought happened, or what I’m worried might happen, etc.!) at the end of every day.  I can’t really account for this strange habit, and I often wonder why I do it.  But when I stop keeping my diary for any length of time I get jittery, and I feel like life is slipping away from me – so I’ve accepted that it’s something I need to do to keep on an even keel.  And in the past year or so, it’s been absolutely vital to me.

I took a chance and ordered a copy of Ellie Claire’s New Every Morning journal a while back.  I have to say I’ve really enjoyed using it.  As you can see, it has Christian quotes on the left hand page, and space to write on the right-hand page.

(If you want to read the quotes, you can click on the photo so it appears large on your screen.  I liked this page because it has a quote by Izaak Walton.  Michael and I had a memorable Christmas visit to the Izaak Walton Inn, in Glacier National Park, once.  The train stops nearby and people help you out into the snow and to the hotel.)

Every New Morning

New Every Morning

What I’ve found myself doing is, after I write about the events of the day, I turn the page and read the quotes for the next day, underlining any bits that I particularly like.  Then the next evening I am essentially re-reading the quotes on the left-hand side, which gives me a feeling of having had a bit more time to soak them up.

The challenge has been to limit myself to one page per day, but that’s also been a benefit insofar as it makes me think of what’s most important.  However, once I finish with this journal I think I’ll be glad to be released back into unlimited white pages.  I’ll miss the quotes though!  As an academic, I am a little bit bothered that the quotes are only accompanied by the author’s name and no more.  But in this day of the internet, if I wanted to pin one of them down, I probably could.

I’ve also found the title encouraging.  When the day has been really stressful or worrying, I’m reminded that tomorrow is a fresh start.  A dear friend said something to me that has been very helpful to remember:  “Every morning brings you closer to being settled in your new home.”  And this journal reminds me of that truth.

I realise that many people aren’t interested in Christian quotations, but this format could be a really good one for any kind of focus.  You could make up your own book!

Posted by: christinelaennec | April 3, 2013

Granny Rhomboid?

Thanks to everyone for your Easter wishes.   I hope you all had a lovely holiday as well.  Our minister began the early outdoor service by noting that it was actually colder than it was on Christmas morning!  But, although there was snow falling on me yesterday, the weather has generally been less frigid and spring is gradually creeping up on us.

Michael has been on holiday – hooray!  We’ve been relaxing together, but we’ve also been organising our move this summer.  We’ve had several removal companies round to give us quotations.  Gosh, do we have a lot of stuff!  Thankfully we have no attic space here but we could easily fill one with heritage toys and family archive material (somehow it’s all come to me).  The Dafter and I have also found a hotel where we all can stay in the final stages of chaos and upheaval.  And by all, I’m including Tilly!

Happy Tilly in her bed

Happy Tilly in her bed, with her hot water bottle

I found three hotels in Aberdeen whose websites said they allowed pets, but when I phoned one and asked about checking in with a cat, they said, “Oh by pets we just mean dogs”.  However, I had a laugh when the woman at the next hotel I phoned went to check with her supervisor.  She came back saying, “Yes, he says anything as long as it isn’t a horse.”  So we will have a wheelchair- and cat-accessible room to retreat to while furniture is taken apart (most of our upstairs furniture could only have made it upstairs in flat-pack form).  It’s a huge luxury, but I know that if I can keep the Dafter and Tilly as happy and calm as possible, the whole process will be much easier on me and less likely to shave years off my life!

Along with all this, I’ve kept on with the crocheted granny square that I learned to make at the Edinburgh Yarn Festival a few weeks ago.  I’d like to make a small blanket from it if I have enough wool and stamina.  But it seems to be becoming a bit wonky:

My granny square (?) end of March, 2013.

The granny square is becoming a rhomboid! End of March, 2013.

I’m really hoping that I can coax it back into a square when it comes to blocking.  If any of you crocheters have advice for me, please let me know!

Posted by: christinelaennec | March 31, 2013

Happy Easter!

It’s a strange thing, but we had snow every single day in Aberdeen between the 10th and the 30th of March this year.  There hasn’t always been quite this much in the mornings, but very often this is what has greeted me when I open the living room curtains:

It has snowed in aberdeen every day between the 10th and the 30th of March 2013!

Average weather in Aberdeen in March 2013!

Often we’ve had sun in the afternoons, so that most of it has melted.  And finally, finally – just as the end of Lent has come – my Lenten roses are in bloom. I think they are so beautiful:

Lenten rose (hellebore), end of March 2013.

Lenten rose (hellebore), end of March 2013.

Here are some brave little narcissi that are so cheerful in the snow:

tête-à-tête daffodils, end of March 2013, Aberdeen.

tête-à-tête daffodils, end of March 2013, Aberdeen.

Needless to say, the above photo was not taken in my garden.  My lawn is hardly ever neatly edged like this.

This morning, although there’s a frost, there’s no snow!  This is good news because there’s a service in the church garden, and also we’re planning one last Easter egg hunt with our downstairs neighbours later this morning.  When they came here seven years ago we shamelessly indoctrinated them into our American traditions, which are now like so much else, becoming more common in Britain.  The traditional thing to do on Easter morning in Scotland is to roll your (hard-boiled) egg, just as the stone of Jesus’ tomb was rolled away.   So from our house to yours,

Easter 2013

Easter 2013

Happy Easter everyone!

Posted by: christinelaennec | March 26, 2013

A chapel to Our Lady on the Brig o’ Dee

Over a year ago, at the start of 2012, Michael and I left the ailing Dafter to go for an afternoon walk down to the Brig o’ Dee.  I never did make a post to show you, and as it’s even more wintry this morning – actually snowing (and lying) outside this morning – I thought I might as well today!   Although the weather is still wintry and we’ve had a very snowy March, we no longer have the beautiful pearly low light of January.  I think it was about 2 pm when we went for our walk.  Here is a photo looking towards the centre of town and thus the harbour.  We’re about two miles from the North Sea here.

Those who know Aberdeen will recognise the obelisk in the Duthie Park.  It was originally in Marischal College, and was paid for by medical students to honour James McGrigor.  He was more or less the founder of medical studies in the city.

View of the River Dee (towards town and the Duthie Park) from the Brig o' Dee, January 2012.

View of the River Dee (towards town and the Duthie Park) from the Brig o’ Dee.  Aberdeen, January 2012.

You’ll see that the river was quite high the day of our walk.  As it’s so close to the sea, it fluctuates with the tides.  Here’s a view from the South side of the river:

The Brig o' Dee, Aberdeen, January 2012.

The Brig o’ Dee, Aberdeen, January 2012.

I knew that the Brig o’ Dee was an old bridge.  What I hadn’t realised before our walk was that in the 1530s there was a chapel to the Virgin Mary built on it.  The sign commemorating the chapel says that it was at the Southern entrance to the bridge, and that it was built for travellers to “make their devotions”.  Sir Gordon of Abergeldie complained that it was an obstruction and violated his fishing rights, but apparently his opposition didn’t prevail with the City Council.

The side of the bridge has coats of arms along it, added as the bridge was constructed in the 1520s.  You can see one of them in the photo below:

The Brig o' Dee, Aberdeen, January 2012.

The Brig o’ Dee, Aberdeen, January 2012.

Isn’t the reflected sky in the water beautiful?  It’s amazing to think that this ancient bridge is still the main entrance to the city from the south.

The Brig o'Dee, Aberdeen, looking East towards town.  January 2012.

The Brig o’Dee, Aberdeen, looking East towards town. January 2012.

In 1560, at the time of the Reformation, the silver statue of the Virgin Mary that stayed in the chapel was apparently smuggled to safety.  The sign below explains that most probably William Laing, an Aberdeen merchant, took it out of the country in the early 1600s.  To this day it is in the church of Notre Dame de Finistère in Brussels.

But Our Lady wasn’t forgotten in Aberdeen.  There is a chapel to her (“Our Lady of Aberdeen”) in St. Mary’s Cathedral.  The large photograph on the right of the sign is of the statue of her there.

Sign explaining about the chapel

Sign explaining about the chapel on the Brig o’ Dee

So although it isn’t on the bridge any longer, there is still a chapel to Our Lady of Aberdeen here.

I was really surprised to receive a little notification from WordPress yesterday that my blog was three years old.  Gosh, when I think back to what I imagined was before me then!  I thought the Dafter was on the verge of much more independence, I imagined I would have more time to work on my creative writing, and more time to spend with Michael.  I had no inkling of the Dafter’s suffering both by being bullied at school and then a year and half later from serious illness.  I certainly didn’t realise that we would be moving to Glasgow (although I have often longingly looked West from Aberdeen and yearned to be a bit further in that direction!  But I was thinking maybe more like Banchory once we retired).  However, although it’s been a very painful time in many ways, especially seeing my daughter suffer so much, I have been so very, very blessed.

The other night I was saying to the Dafter that once she’s able to swim back into the stream of life, and make friends, and go out and do things, I will really miss her company!  She and I have spent most of our waking hours over the last year and a half together or in very close proximity.  And do you know, it has really been a joy.  Although she has been too ill to do schoolwork, she has gained insights, wisdom and compassion that I certainly don’t feel I had until I was in my 30s.  Her company and conversation is a delight to me.  As we were talking about her future independence, we both said at the exactly the same time, “For now, I guess you’re/I’m stuck with me/you”.   And we laughed and hugged each other.

Posted by: christinelaennec | March 21, 2013

Fit’s afore ye…

Thank you all very much for your house-selling good wishes!  They have been very effective.  After 16 viewings in 6 weeks, yesterday we agreed a sale with a lovely couple who are starting a family.  I felt just a bit different looking out my window this morning, knowing that we will be gone from this place at the end of July.

Morning view from my window, March 21st 2013, Aberdeen.

Morning view from my window, March 21st 2013, Aberdeen.

I’ve often thought, these past few months, of the phrase “What’s meant for you won’t pass you by”.  A friend from church taught me the Doric version:  “Fit’s afore ye winna ging ahin ye” – what’s in front of you won’t go behind you.  I’ve been praying for the family who would come here (nice to know who they are now) and also for the family whose home we will buy in Glasgow, for our new neighbourhood, school and friends-to-be.  I know there will be moments of great stress as in all moves, but we’re all looking forwards to a fresh start.  The sale will take some weeks to complete, so we won’t be househunting for a little while.

If, like me and Jill (see her comment on the previous post), you believe Spring begins on the 21st, then Happy First Day of Spring!

The Dafter by the fire, March 2013, Aberdeen.

The Dafter by the fire (and with hot-water-bottle) March 2013, Aberdeen.

I’m very glad I managed to get more coal and wood, because it’s been so cold that the fire has been the only way to warm the Dafter up recently.  And I’m so glad I no longer have to be on alert for phone calls, and have everything like a show home for potential visitors.   I’ve had to neglect the Dafter, and Tilly, quite a bit over the past two months, and I’m going to enjoy being able to relax a bit more with both of them.

Thank you all again!

Posted by: christinelaennec | March 20, 2013

A late-winter hat

I see from my Farmer’s Almanac that today is in fact the first day of spring!  (In New Hampshire, at least.)  Yesterday it snowed most of the day but the wind was so fierce it just seemed to blow past.  My darling neighbour and friend, Mary Morrison, used to say “it’s always windy at the Equinox” and so often it’s true.  I kept the fire going and tried to keep the poor Dafter warm.  Her nails turn blue, she gets so cold!  Heavy snow is forecast for Friday and the weekend.  I can’t say I’m too surprised, because I have quite often seen snow lying the first week of April in Aberdeen.

From weather to hats – the two are obviously related.  Recently Tina of Tea and Woolly Socks made a late-winter hat.  As I’d bought a skein of discontinued Noro yarn in a fit of complete self-indulgence (because I need more yarn like I need a hole in the head), I thought: yes!  I, too, need a late-winter hat!  So I used it to make the Buttoned Cloche:

"Buttoned Cloche" by ?? in Noro Yuzen

“Buttoned Cloche” by Andrea Delhey in Noro Yuzen

I would have liked to make the version with a longer brim, but I’m happy enough with how this turned out and the garter stitch was very therapeutic to knit.  I didn’t make a proper flap with buttonholes, but just extended it a little bit, and sewed the buttons through.  Here’s a photo of me in it, taken by the Dafter:

my late-winter hat on a snowy day.

my late-winter hat on a snowy day.

Hilariously, a perfect stranger in Edinburgh said, “I like your hat!” to me.  I was very startled and replied, “Thanks, it’s fresh off the needles!”  I have no idea whether he understood what kind of needles I was talking about.

Happy Vernal Equinox everyone!

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